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so it was brought to my attention that i am a female in in the army.now this might sound strange to some people but this subject comes up a-lot with males. More so for males who want to date me. if there in the army or not. it sounds kinda crazy to me only b/c its takes self identity away. I'm well aware: That i'm a female, a motor transport operator.(http://www.goarmy.com/JobDetail.do?id=162)
That my mos by some is considered to be a male oriented MOS. Yet the misconception there's a lot more females holding it down.So when guys put out the whole, female in the army and day it like its a bad thing or it makes them uncomfortable. i just want to be like:
1973 females have been in the army, and though every one knows and guys love to put out, the Army excludes women from serving in jobs or MOS involved in direct ground combat. Where still holdin it down. There's this big misconception that its not lady like to want to be equal qith the guys. Where supose to suport the womens sufferage. have danity job and be a afraid of dirt.Let the guys do the heavy lifting, dirty work, have all the fun.
So i guess where supose to go back to 1893 and just be happy we can vote, right?
Well i for one say that its beyond time for males to just give up on that one .because its not happening. Women are allowed to be girly-girl and not be afraid to step outside the box.Not settling for the damsle in distress. And letting it be know that male-dominated occupation means nothing. So why must we do the whole occupational sex segregation. Who knows. I know that i dont mind working with males.Males might mind working with me b/c im a female b/c of there resevations, or past exerences. yet there comes a time where people need to learn that prejudgement is at times uncalled. Not all females are the same an vis versa.
I'm not saying that all males, have done this for me. yet theres a good group. Its annoying, imature,sexist and really sad. Of all the things you could hold against someone your going to pick there job.That really small minded. That like me deciding not to talk to a guys just because hes shorter, or not as tall as i want him to be. now thats my opion, to do as i please, everyone has the right.Yet lifes not a one way stree and the mind shouldnt be either. With a bigger perspective of things were all, down for the cause,service,sacrifice.Shouldnt that be all that matters. i just think that when it all comes down to it all that should matter is that the people to the left and right of you are there for you. not if its a female then i hope theres a male standing behind her.Cause when you think about it what if there isnt. then what do you do wait?
So the bigger picture here is why dose it bother guys soo much that i have a assume to be for the guys MOS. Cause it never bothered me. I'm not sitting there gender roling them so why shouldn't i deserve the same respect. My job is my job its not a life alerting decision.
My job just like everyone elses is something i enjoy and work hard in.I have to work just as hard to keep it and have other respect for it. I have to prove myself in my work.i take pride in what i do and i wouldnt change that for the world. At work that fine.
Yet when iut comes to dating, why should i have to prove that im worth the time, because i have a what is concided to be male orriented job. how dose that make me any more or less worth the time of getting to know me. i mean lets be real here, i understand that to some its intimadating because there not sure what to except. but that dosent mean that everyones all the same.i take pride in what i do but that dosent mean that it consumes my life. Its my professions that dosent mean that im not girly.I'm a human being that likes trucks and likes to drive trucks.
i wouldnt walk up to someone and be i cant like you for you job.Thats really small minded and caddy.not to mention rude and self centered. I've been in long enought to know that as long as i hold my end of my work that all that matters at the end of the day. male or female,if your not holding your end and your proven it that is the ice breaker.
That my job dosent fully define me but it dose say something about me.That i like a challages,decidcation,dependence, willing to work,hold my own, adventious, have little fear, lots of confience, know the amount of effort that has to be put forth to work hard in team success.I mean when you think about it of all the things that guys complain about looking for and wanting. im pretty sure that as far as things go that dosnet sound all that bad. I might not be all body builder army girl, but im a army girl. that know that theres more to me then just my job and if people cant accept that then that all them.Its a shame the there resevations,misconceptions, would be what helpt them misout on one of the best! lol.. to be continued!
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"http://www.hqda.army.mil/ari/pdf/WomenInTheArmy-DrHarris.pdf"
That my job dosent fully define me but it dose say something about me.
That my mos by some is considered to be a male oriented MOS. Yet the misconception there's a lot more females holding it down.So when guys put out the whole, female in the army and day it like its a bad thing or it makes them uncomfortable. i just want to be like:
1973 females have been in the army, and though every one knows and guys love to put out, the Army excludes women from serving in jobs or MOS involved in direct ground combat. Where still holdin it down. There's this big misconception that its not lady like to want to be equal qith the guys. Where supose to suport the womens sufferage. have danity job and be a afraid of dirt.Let the guys do the heavy lifting, dirty work, have all the fun.
So i guess where supose to go back to 1893 and just be happy we can vote, right?
Well i for one say that its beyond time for males to just give up on that one .because its not happening. Women are allowed to be girly-girl and not be afraid to step outside the box.Not settling for the damsle in distress. And letting it be know that male-dominated occupation means nothing. So why must we do the whole occupational sex segregation. Who knows. I know that i dont mind working with males.Males might mind working with me b/c im a female b/c of there resevations, or past exerences. yet there comes a time where people need to learn that prejudgement is at times uncalled. Not all females are the same an vis versa.
I'm not saying that all males, have done this for me. yet theres a good group. Its annoying, imature,sexist and really sad. Of all the things you could hold against someone your going to pick there job.That really small minded. That like me deciding not to talk to a guys just because hes shorter, or not as tall as i want him to be. now thats my opion, to do as i please, everyone has the right.Yet lifes not a one way stree and the mind shouldnt be either. With a bigger perspective of things were all, down for the cause,service,sacrifice.Shouldnt that be all that matters. i just think that when it all comes down to it all that should matter is that the people to the left and right of you are there for you. not if its a female then i hope theres a male standing behind her.Cause when you think about it what if there isnt. then what do you do wait?
So the bigger picture here is why dose it bother guys soo much that i have a assume to be for the guys MOS. Cause it never bothered me. I'm not sitting there gender roling them so why shouldn't i deserve the same respect. My job is my job its not a life alerting decision.
My job just like everyone elses is something i enjoy and work hard in.I have to work just as hard to keep it and have other respect for it. I have to prove myself in my work.i take pride in what i do and i wouldnt change that for the world. At work that fine.
Yet when iut comes to dating, why should i have to prove that im worth the time, because i have a what is concided to be male orriented job. how dose that make me any more or less worth the time of getting to know me. i mean lets be real here, i understand that to some its intimadating because there not sure what to except. but that dosent mean that everyones all the same.i take pride in what i do but that dosent mean that it consumes my life. Its my professions that dosent mean that im not girly.I'm a human being that likes trucks and likes to drive trucks.
i wouldnt walk up to someone and be i cant like you for you job.Thats really small minded and caddy.not to mention rude and self centered. I've been in long enought to know that as long as i hold my end of my work that all that matters at the end of the day. male or female,if your not holding your end and your proven it that is the ice breaker.
That my job dosent fully define me but it dose say something about me.That i like a challages,decidcation,dependence, willing to work,hold my own, adventious, have little fear, lots of confience, know the amount of effort that has to be put forth to work hard in team success.I mean when you think about it of all the things that guys complain about looking for and wanting. im pretty sure that as far as things go that dosnet sound all that bad. I might not be all body builder army girl, but im a army girl. that know that theres more to me then just my job and if people cant accept that then that all them.Its a shame the there resevations,misconceptions, would be what helpt them misout on one of the best! lol.. to be continued!
.
"http://www.hqda.army.mil/ari/pdf/WomenInTheArmy-DrHarris.pdf"
That my job dosent fully define me but it dose say something about me.
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